What is it like to live with a Russian surname in the USA: the personal experience of our immigrant
After moving to the United States, our immigrants often change their first or last name to more familiar to Americans. Author blog "Queen in America" on Yandex.Zen told why so.
Next - from the first person.
Today I will reveal to you the secret of my nickname. “The Queen in the USA” is actually me - Natalia Koroleva. That's all. The thing is that the letter "ё" in Russian is a windy young lady. Either she is, then she is not. And sometimes it seems to be there, but in fact it is not. Very Russian.
And so it happened with my last name. In all documents I am the Queen (without dots above the "e"). In the passport, and therefore in the American documents of Koroleva. But when a Russian person pronounces my last name, he says "Karaleva". In the USA it is pronounced "Koroleva".
I, of course, got used to such a distortion of my surname over the 3,5 years of my life here, but I am not particularly enthusiastic about this. However, my husband was much more unlucky.
Abracadabra, not a surname
His last name consists of 11 letters or 5 syllables. Not a single English-speaking person has ever said it the first time. And even from the second ... Usually they read the first two syllables, then stumble, mumble something inarticulate and apologize.
Would you like to live in such a way that no one can pronounce your last name? We decided that our son would hardly appreciate such a gift, and before his birth we invented a new surname for a new person.
As you name it, it will float
We considered the option to give him my last name, but there were difficulties with it:
- what form to use - Korolev or Queen, for Americans these are completely different surnames;
- her euphony is also questionable;
- giving the child the mother's surname, and not the father's surname, was somehow offensive for dad.
They started thinking about a new surname. Quite quickly, an option was found that met all our requests:
- short and sonorous;
- familiar and understandable in American life;
- written without discrepancies in English and Russian;
- is closely related to the surname of the parents. In fact, it is very close to the translation of my last name.
Now we all have different surnames. The little man started a new branch of our kind. And I plan in the future, when all the epics with immigration documents are completed, also change the surname to this new one, so to speak, translate my own into English.
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