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8 habits of Americans who are not in Russia

Famous Russian sound engineer Artem Nuzhin (“The Last Hero”, “Vacations in Mexico”, “Star Factory”), who worked on the largest TV projects in Russia and opened his production in the USA, talks about the life of the Russian family in America and the difference in mentalities.

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Smile it annoys everyone

The topic of an insincere American smile is discussed in all blogs about life in the States and is played up in many Russian films. Smiling people in public places is really the first thing that catches the eye after Russian realities.

If you walk down the street and meet someone’s gaze, you will most likely immediately hear the question: “Hello, how are you?”. And this is really what happens literally on the machine. Previously, it seemed to me that these are some stereotypes and cliches, but in reality everything is exactly like this: in the shops, at gas stations and in cafes every day I hear this question.

I can imagine how, smiling, I ask the neighbor in the Moscow metro at rush hour: “Hello, how are you?”. In our minds, smiling strangers are perceived as crazy or blissful.

Note. Scientists have found that the causes of smiles in countries with a homogeneous and multinational composition of the population are different. In immigrant countries, a smile helps to build connections and acquaintances, and in “homogeneous” countries so superiority is manifested.

By the way, Americans spend big money to make their smile the snowiest and most beautiful; so smile to all passersby This is a serious job that requires large investments.

Children are the flowers of life

When I first walked with my newborn son in a wheelchair in Los Angeles, I met a passerby with a dog in 150-200 meters from me. As we approach, the passer-by switched to the other side so that the dog does not frighten the sleeping baby. And only over time, I began to realize that this is normal behavior for residents of the United States. In public spaces, people are afraid of disturbing their neighbors with an inaccurate movement; even more fears are caused by the possibility of disturbing other people's children.

Today I live in two cities: Moscow and Los Angeles. Every time when we go to a cafe with our son in Russia, I feel the views from the side, suddenly the child starts to act up or cry. In the US, everything is different: for two years now they have come to me and ask me what my son’s name is when he started walking, still congratulate with the birth of the baby. Unexpected contrast, which is still difficult for me.

Note. Get ready to listen to compliments to the address of your most beautiful baby in the world, and still fight back (or put up with) those who want to kiss, cuddle or just hold your child in your arms. By the way, in America you can go with a child to a social event (and even bring it in a sling) this will be immediately supported by the other guests, and you can be the star of the evening.

Road safety is paramount

Surely, many have heard that each state has its own laws, but the general rules of the country strictly regulate safe driving. According to statistics, in the US almost two times lower rates of accidents with injuries than in Russia, while in the States public transport is poorly developed, mostly people move in their own cars, and the number of cars on the roads is amazing - 225 million cars in the US against 45 million in Russia.

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It is also an important moment when driving in America - politeness and respect among drivers, here 90% of motorists are able to rebuild, rarely make sharp and rough overtaking.

Cars move quietly in the stream, in the case when an ambulance or fire engine is driving, all motorists, without exception, drive off to the side and stop. If there is a turn ahead, then the right lane is intended for this maneuver. Even in traffic jams, they do not leave it on the motorways in order to overtake a couple of cars and drive in faster. Often, at ordinary intersections regulated by traffic lights, I see a picture that is not at all familiar to Russians: cars stand in two rows, and to the right is empty!

In Russia, I am almost always ready to attack. And in Los Angeles I can not afford to go like that.

Note. Low rates of accidents on the roads are due to the fact that in the United States the cause of the accident is automatically eliminated from the list of law-abiding citizens: there will be difficulties in obtaining a loan, employers are reluctant to find a job, the society also does not support such behavior. In America, you can easily get six months of compulsory corrective work or a long prison term for an accident and driving while intoxicated, and this is truly feared, so try not to provoke emergencies.

Oh sport you life

The first time I lived in the USA, it seemed to me that all Americans have fitness dependence. Gyms are extremely popular, Americans are a sports nation. If we in Russia are accustomed to walking slowly along the path or swimming in the pool, and the sport is just becoming fashionable again, then Americans have turned from their childhood to physical development. Many have seen sports show in America movies? And indeed it is! From early childhood, boys are accustomed to basketball, baseball, American football, rowing, which is not as popular in Russia as in the States, girls - to run, gymnastics.

Note. Sport helps to keep competitive spirit in children, so you always have to prove that you are the best. This approach fits perfectly into the concept of the "American Dream".

Away is good, but home is better

American traditions dictate a specific vision for our guests, specific to us Russians.

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For example, it is not accepted there that the owner of the house cooks, cleans and entertains the guests, and those who go home are fed and satisfied. Each guest brings with him the dish or drink that he would like to enjoy tonight. It is unlikely that you will be met with tables full of dishes, this is not accepted here. Often the guests cut salads themselves and help set the table.

In the USA, I miss Russian feasts till the morning and heart-to-heart talks, and it’s definitely not worth going to America.

Note. By the way, if an American called you This is a great success, they usually gather guests (on holidays and important events) not at home, but in a restaurant. Most likely, you will receive an invitation in the form of a card-postcard, not an SMS or phone call, and you will also have to answer it in advance, informing you if you can attend the celebration.

Take off shoes - only in a dream

Surely you saw in the movies that Americans do not take off their shoes when entering the house (yours or someone else's - it does not matter), they flaunt on the floor or carpets in sneakers and shoes, and even climb with their feet on the bed and sofa in outdoor shoes.

These are not fiction writers and filmmakers, in real life they will even look at you a little awry, if you want to unbutton all your intricate clasps on your evening sandals or untie your laces.

Note. The fact is that in the United States it is customary to move exclusively on your own car, and walk along the roads at a minimum. We should tell about the roads separately, monitor the cleanliness of the asphalt very carefully and wash the sidewalks with cleaning products once in 14 of the week. So they just can’t get their socks dirty!

New year without Christmas tree

On the eve of the New Year, you can notice a bunch of trees thrown at the dumps and decide that there is nothing sacred left in the Americans. Also, some enterprising Russian immigrants think that they sometimes drag these Christmas trees into their homes in order not to buy.

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Note. And there is an explanation! New Year in the United States is not considered such an important holiday as Christmas. It is to him in America that the most beautiful Christmas tree is chosen and gifts are placed under it, and then it becomes just no longer necessary.

Pavlik Morozov - an example to follow

Oh yes, in America, you most likely will never make a remark, but they will remember everything, write it down in their “little black book” and then give it to the right place. For example, if a passerby notices that you did not pay for parking, he will not remind you of this, but simply go to the policeman and explain the situation to him.

Note. This “sabotage” and “knocking” has a sufficiently weighty reason: after all, if you have seen, but not prevented, then, most likely, you will also have problems with the law. Since childhood, little Americans are taught to be law-abiding and to ensure that others also become like this.

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